THE VOCATION OF PORN?

Daddy? What do you do for a living?

As small mom-on-pop sites turn into full-time mom-and-pop operations, the porn webmaster community is dealing with something new: family life.

In a first for the industry, webmasters met Monday for a bit of "therapy" at the annual Cybernet Expo porn trade show and spilled their guts about the strains of juggling porn and the PTA.

In general, webmasters said they keep outsiders in the dark along with family members, especially little kids. Richard Buss of porn affiliate site [deleted] keeps his home office in Phoenix locked tight and has no plans to ever tell his preschool-age daughter what he does for a living.

"I don't want her to know, whether she's 21 or 25," he said. "I think it's the proper way to do things."

"I don't tell, not because I'm ashamed of it. I don't tell to protect my daughter and my livelihood," said "Lori Z." who runs [deleted], a resource site for porn webmasters. She also has a preschool-age child she eventually plans to tell about her job, and is active at her local school, where she keeps her work life secret.